My husband is not interested in sex. I had a lot of arguments with my in laws as we are in a joint family and he tells me that he is not interested because I hurt him by not being favourable to my in laws. He was staying abroad for the past 8 months and we had lot of miscommunication and misunderstandings because of my in laws. I tell him physical contact will mend the bond. But he tells me that I am wrong and that is why he is not interested in sex with me and he wants me to be nice with his parents. He works in a software company for more than 9 hours a day. Is there any other reason behind for him not interested?
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May or may not be. Right now if he is saying that this is the reason it is worth pursuing that line of action and learning to get along with his folks. If after that he still does not entertain sexual contact, you have a clear problem of something seriously wrong either with the relationship and/or with his sexual drives. You are still young and your sexual appetite will be at its prime. He must not use this excuse unless it is outrageously bad on your side. Anyway the suggestion to give it a try and see what happens can help you decide on a future course of action, which could involves going for marital counseling.
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Wife should not be begging with husband for sex, and husband should not black mail her for the same, demanding her to be nice to her in laws. Your hubby has serious atitude problems. Discuus with ur parents and pull the plug at the earliest, as it s tought to mend these guys. All the best
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It is his mind is not ready as he thinks you are nice to his parents and you have frank talk or both of you go for a counseling. Also see if you can live with him in another house close to his office.
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