Hi. Can people change their way of behavior while they r at work and at home? When he's at home he's so promising and listens to me. When he's at work he totally ignores my calls or won't reply to any texts and he forgets to pay bills or rent etc. He started new business office and is always traveling and all. But he's forgetting so many basic things to b done at home like paying bills etc I shd remind 100 times. How to make him normal to make balance in personal and at work. I spoke to him over this matter when he's at home he listens and says politely yes I will take care no problem but he forgets a lot. He's always in meetings and busy. I want to take care of home matters from now on but he won't allows me he says he will take care but I shd always remind him again. I want to help him and make him understand about how I feel. please help me.
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Be patience in office he really having lots of work, so much responsibility ,smtm dead line are there, money matter due to pressure he may forgot you patiently handle him as time goes may change all thing.
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Hello, I can understand your concern for your husband. As you have mentioned there are two major issues is forgetfulness towards household duties, which can be dealt with teaching effective time management ,division of work and reminders. And second is busy at work place. The work pressure and stress level is increasing at a tremendous amount. At some level you may have to choose where to give yourself a pause. In both the issues we should involve your husband, with the help of therapy we may except some changes. I hope it may give you some directions. Have a nice day.
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He is over loaded with work tension which is the reason for his mood changes and you have to support him emotionally and avoid calling while he is a work. unless it is important .
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