Hi doc, my dad is a great guy but I feel he is a little egoistic he loves me n mom a lot but d moment v advice him smthng he starts getting angry n starts shouting mom I am not saying he does not love her he does but cannot think from both side n gets angry without reason which in turn leads mt mom get sad .she just burst into tears what can she do? She can not even let him go its hurts alot I feel too bad for her please suggest something Thankyou.
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If it is mere shouting, then that is not good enough reason to leave him. If it does get beyond her control, she has to take measures to resolve the same. One such help is in reaching out to a marriage counselor. Sometimes, instead of arguing with the man, just amuse him and avoid the conflict. If you pander to his ego, it will not kill you and neither will he become so great. He probably has some control issues which are in fact based on fear. He may choose to get angry instead, which does not resolve the problem. Until he takes care of that fear, he will try to be in charge and want to control both of you. So it is a matter of choice: to confront and get rebuked by him or to let go and just be amused by his antics!!! The greatest benefit in your query is that he loves you both. That is a great blessing in itself: it could have been worse otherwise.
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Look at your dad s positives and try to ignore the negatives. If the negative aspects of behaivor is too much, you can suggest family counselling, which will help him. All the best.
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He may be in mood changes or depression and need to checkup. Or it can be his behavioural pattern and he really loves but cannot understand your feelings, properly.
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