I am loving one person, but he is not much caring me. He loves and take care of me only when I am near to him. I want to forget him and lead my life or I want to make him to love me more. What should I do. Do I need to take counseling. And if want to do any work or anything always negative vibes are coming in mind like I can't do this and I may lose in this. I want to improve my positive energy. I am reserved type and I can't move freely with everyone. I want to change that attitude and want to be free and jovial with everyone. Please suggest me the solution. Thank You.
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Hi lybrate-user, I can understand your concern. You are young woman and many of females like you sometime suffer from such dilemma in life. With counseling of course you can solve the issue. One important thing is human mind does not have facility to forget. You have to accept the reality that opposite person is not involve with you as you wished so you want to move ahead. By accepting and digesting this fact you can carry on life. You cannot forget that person but of course you can put his memory aside in your mind. You also seem to be under stress. After evaluation if you are diagnosed with depression with counseling anti anxiety or anti depressant medicines can help to motivate you for moving ahead. For detail consultation you are welcome to contact me with details of your problem. Take care dear young lady and wish you good health.
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Unfortunately some people spend their lifetime "changing" themselves. Better approach is to accept oneself unconditionally. Self respect stems from loving oneself. Comparing with other personality type and wanting to be like them is like coconut tree wanting to be like mango tree. Make a list of your own strong points and love your self for them. It is painful to live with someone who criticises you, finds faults with you all the time. It is even more painful if that criticising person is yourself. When you have healthy self respect you effortlessly improve in other areas if necessary. Drop the person if you don't see he values you. After dropping him (stopping communication) if he really misses you he will come back. If he doesn't, then you are better off away from such a person. Take care. Be yourself. That's the way to grow in healthy way.
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lybrate-user, Your situation can be managed by opening up to someone whom you trust and letting out your emotions. If that doesn't help, go for a session of counselling. Meanwhile doing pranayama and yoga daily helps a lot.
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