I'm working in a IT company. From my school days I was bought up in a atmosphere where all like me and respect me. Infact most intelligent girl in school, college wherever I go. I'm very straight forward. I don't like people with two faces. I don't like people speaking at back. In my company I was put into designation which I feel like'it's not the right designation for me' I was put into support project in which I will have work for only an hour a day. But the company pays me very well. The thing is I'm not satisfied with my job now. During my college times I have a start up for me, for which I used to work for day and night. Sometimes I have not even come to home. I'm that much dedicated to my job I need a change from this job. There are many internal opportunities in my company. But my manager is not releasing me from this project. Yesterday I went to talk to my manager regarding this. And she doesn't speak like a manager she spoke like a local person. It triggered my anger I argued with her. She told many words which has hurt me very badly. Atlast convinced me since she was afraid I may escalate her. Now the problem is I'm disturbed. My mind is keep on thinking about yesterday's conversation in repeat mode. I couldn't concentrate on anything. I need some positive energy. I want to survive in that place. She made me felt inferior. :(I need a good counselling.
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Have the courage to face any problem. Don't be tensed. Welcome all the problems with smile. There may arise many hard times but you should take it easily. You should share your problems to your near reliable relatives and dearest friends and colleagues.
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Dear lybrate-user, we cannot change the thinking of people around us what we can do is to make ourself such that we don't get affected by the behaviour of others. We cannot make everyone happy ,there is always two sides of coin. Is anyone that much important that you are wasting precious moment of your life for her/him. If someone will give you something and you will not accept that thing ,then that thing will remain with the same person, make your life's philosophy like this because at every stage of life there will be many people who will criticise you at different points of life and as you will progress then this criticism will increase ,think about the head of any nation how much criticism he/she has to face. Inspite of being the most powerful person people always cricises him/her for whatever he does. When these types of thought disturbs you write it on paper, make yourself busy as much as you can so that you don't get free time to think on this topic, make some good friends, with whom you can share everything, if possible take break for few days and make some plan to go anywhere. If you need my help you can contact me online also .take care.
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