I am 20 and I have a boyfriend he always asked me for sex. But I am afraid dat if I do sex my vagina will get loose he tried to do it many time but I dint let him .but now he is feeling depressed we just had foreplay many time like breast pressing and fingering .so I am asking that can I take part in sex with him.

Ms. Kriti VyasPsychologist7yrs exp

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Dear Lybrate User Getting involved into a sexual relationship with your partner is completely a couples decision. You both are adults and mature enough to take up decisions. Just remember that take your decision wisely as every decision will bring it's own consequences. If you made up a choice then also be prepared to handle it's repercussions. As partners you both need to talk to each other about each other worries and concerns. You both need to discuss about important ingredients of a relationship. Physical intimacy is important in a relationship but it's not the only thing that builds up the relationship. Both partners need to understand each other's priorities and needs. They need to value each other's decisions too. So have a dialogue with your partner. Lastly but very important thing is to discuss things with a gynaecologist. Take proper guidance from her. Clarify all your queries regarding your body with her. If you wish, you can also take your partner along when visiting or discussing things with her. All the best. 

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