I know that I am a good debater and today first I spoke in hindi. I got 2nd prize but still I am not at all satisfied as the girl who got 1st was not deserving for it. This was even the choice of audience taht I should win. But luck was with her. So from that point of time, I am feeling as if I am fit for nothing. I am suffering from headache and a lot of tension. What should I do?
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Hello Salil, I can understand that you are emotionally down, and these feelings are natural. However, you can see this situation as a first step towards a huge success. It is often that we don't have answers to certain questions. Nonetheless, if you think positive about this situation, and tell yourself, that I am still content that I got the 2nd Prize, and the next time, I am going to be the 1st prize winner, then I am sure this attitude help you to go a long way..
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Congratulations! you got second at least! I am very happy to know the confidence that you have in yourself! but, just becoz you did not come first, you are loosing confidence? This attitude is definitely not suiting you - you just told that you are a good debater- or, you win in a situation against an opponent. This time see your own self as an opponent who is driving you crazy over getting a second position. Get up and take control of the situation and defeat this attitude that is pulling you apart. Take this situation as a challenge, as you always do and be the winner by defeating this feeling that why you came second. First, you have to defeat your own negativity and then only you will manage to defeat an outsider. Take this as a learning opportunity- god is by your side. He just wanted you to taste defeat in a debate, so that, you work even more harder and do not let the opponent win. So, relish what god has offered you in the best of your interest. Remember, he is with you always. Fight back with the confidence of a winner and let your destiny decide what it gives you- defeat or win! why should you bother on result. Give your best always and let go everything else.
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You need not lose heart and feel depressed. In competition it is natural to win or lose and you prepare better next time and always you will not win and have good sportsman spirit to take success and failure with calm mind for your better future , you can have talk with parents or elders for moral support/. Upi do meditaion and yoga for mind control and your headache will go then
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