Hi Sir I use to gym. Before 2-3 days I said to my sister to boil chole and rajma for me. I have said that but she did not Boil I angry at her. I think that my family does not support me. I always demotivated by my father. I think they all are opposite side to me. Many times my father have said nikal ja sale ghar se me tughe bedhakal Kar Dunga. By thinking this sentence I'm my mind I feel that I am living in this house like a DOG WHO has no no respect. I have my self respect I can't bear it anymore. It is usually done with me I can't live In this house. I want to left this house. Give me right way please.

I agree you are feeling very distressed by state of affairs at home. Will leaving house make things or relations better. Obviously no. Why not try the other way round- you feel the root cause lies with your father. So, pull yourself together and try going to him like you would suppose he was very loving--hold his hand and tell him- papa, want to talk to you--this behavior of yours will sway his anger away! sit down lovingly and pour it all out, just as you have confided here. Tell him, you love him as a father and his behavior really hurts you. Tell him your complaints. Pour it all out in as loving a manner as you can. Tell him each time he says those words, they kill you! tell him, exactly what you feel. Sincerely spoken words always make an impact! he might become positive! this is what you always wanted. Give it a try. Maybe in front of a supporter of yours- your mother, brother or anybody in the family--who can be with you to put up your side in front of him. Many times, we are so angry that we are unable to see things from other's point of view. Try to see things his way, definitely, the relationship will become better leaving no room for leaving family! all the best. 

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You are having despair, disappointment, frustration and hopelessness due to disturbed emotional behavior among family members. It may convert in depression if prolonged or may break your family ties. You need psychological counseling and training to learn either to avoid or to control or to tolerate or to cope with your despair, disappointment, frustration and hopelessness, anger and stress. You have to learn stress, anger & despair management as well as to manage the situation smartly without hurting anyone otherwise your social and personal relationships would be damaged and also keep you hopeful and motivated by controlling over your despair. 

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Dear lybrate-user, You are over reacting to some thing very petty. If keep on getting angry with others, it will not helpTalk to your mother and request her to convey to your father that you get hurt with what he says You need to learn to be respectful even when things are not going your way. Going away from home just like that would be disastrous Try to focus on studies as much as possible because your education if your best friend.  

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