Always my husband is not so responsible towards me and my children. He only wants his mother and sister. He treats them very luxurious and I n my children even not the needful. I am very much worried and suffering how he deals with us in our married life of six years. How he will be responsible, I made him the possibility to attend counselling with every matured people, but he blindly after his mother and sister neglecting us. Basic information is about my husband.
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Communicate with your husband about your concerns. It is possible that he may be amenable to reason, if he understands how much this is troubling you. If he is not co-operative, involve a family member or friend who will intervene. If that does not work either, consult a psychologist/ counselor/ psychiatrist. A professional will be able to mediate an understanding between both of you. I also suggest that you both take out some time for each other everyday; that will help your relationship and increase your communication.
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Dear Lybrate User, It appears that you feel neglected, hurt and sad. It appears that your husband has certain values and beliefs because of which he thinks that his wife and children have second priority in his life. This is because of his upbringing and his own life experiences. It will be very helpful if you both go to a Professional Counsellor. Do not seek counselling from any family member or friends. It has its limitations. If your husband is not willing to go for couple counselling, then at least you seek help from a Professional Counsellor and start the process. It will help you a lot. Take care.
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