I am a 26 Years Old working in a MNC, I have an affair with a 37 years old lady, though being into a relationship from past 8 years to a girl with whom I am ready to get settled but I am not able to move on from that lady, she is honest and caring, when I met her ,she already had an EMA and when I proposed her after few months of our friendship, she told me about her EMA but I kept on approaching her, seeing me depress, she started meeting me and soon these meetings resulted in intimacy followed by affair, after few months I requested her to end up with that EMA (about whom she told earlier) ,she even tried but was not able to move out of it, now whenever I ask her, she simply remains neutral and I get hurted with it. What shall I do? I really feel messed up into all these and not able to identify right or wrong. Please help.