Hello sir I'm 20 years old male studying degree. Sir I am little straight forward. I couldn't take fakeness from other people. Because it's my dad he is so fake love towards us. Unfortunately all my friends whom I'm supposed to be for 1 more year are like backstabbing kind no pure friendship. Not only me they themselves also. Fake for future use. When time comes they will show their true color, it really trouble me. please help me. And suggest me how to deal such relationships instead of reacting and depressing. please give me suggestions. please don't tell to consult doctor ,give me some suggestions if possible tnq.
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Hello Lybrate friend, lybrate-user being straight forward is a very nice quality. But you cannot expect everyone to be the same. Acceptance and expectance are two very different things. Expectations are only in your head and more than often you will be disappointed because of your expectations. On the other hand acceptance can make your life pretty simple. Since everyone is different and we have no control over how the other person behaves all we can do is keep a check on ourselves. And being straightforward does not necessarily mean that every time you will have to offend someone else by speaking it out. We need to maintain a necessary peace in the society and always saying it out does not help. So just stay the way you are but only modify your straightforward behavior a little so that you don't end up offending anyone. That's all. Because you are too young to conclude so much about the life. Just keep calm and continue living. Surround yourself with more positive thoughts and keep working onthem and live a happy and fruitful life. Wish you all the best.
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