Suffering from depression. What should I do? I love someone but my parents are not accepting these relationship due to boy's education and he was rude wid me in past. I have forgiven him but parents don't like him. My boy want to do court marriage. I really love him but I don't want to hurt my parents. We tried lot to convince my parents. Even boy's family were trying lot. But they are not ready to accept. I think both are right on their perspective. I am feeling guilty that I can't make Happy non of them.
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Just rethink about this relationship. I suggest to forget about this boy and start a new chapter. Because u should also view your parent's opinion. They have more experience of life.Don't lose heart .Give yourself some time.And God will help .
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Please try to understand that you are too much irritated, frustrated and stressed and that now showing in the form of guilt, regret and depression. You need to ask yourself what do you want and what sort of life you are looking for (after all this is your life) then decide the response by keeping in mind that you are not suppose to hurt yourself as well. Please don't take any medicines. If you can not handle your own then Its advisable for you to connect a relationship and Marriage coach either nearby or me to open your heart out and express all your bottled feelings and apprehensions. You may contact either online or in person for guidance and support. Basically its quite normal to have such a situation at this age. You will be fine.
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Dear Lybrate user ,Marriage is life long relation and its decision should not be taken on temporary emotions. First think about yourself you have to spend your whole life so think whether will you be happy in long run, whether He was rude due to any reason or it is part of his nature. Court marriage is not solution it will increase your frustration level, Talk with your parents if it is only about education then the boy can study further and you can wait for 2-3 years in the meantime you can also focus on your career and if you will get good job then may be they feel that you are doing good in career so you can manage economically then they can allow after all they are your parents and real well wisher, any matter can be solve through dialogues but try to know their exact problem, take help of your brother or sister to convince your parents, you can also take help of any relative with whom your parents have good relation, you can also take help of counsellor also .
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Listen to your parents, they have brought you up to this level, in this age love would make a person have all or none thinking, that life is impossible without the person, which is different from mature love, wherein parents, education, job, lifestyle all are taken into consideration. So kindly go for counselling to a psychiatrist or experienced clinical psychologist.
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