Hi Doctor. I got married a month before. When I am trying to have sex with my wife, she's afraid of it and refusing me due to pain. Pls advice on how I can do it. Thanks.
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Use lubricant, or wait till she get lubricated. Try different positions.
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Hello user, It is very natural that people have this phobia of pain. Make her comfortable with you and grow the bonding stronger. Having sex is a part of love which will take a little time as you have just married a month ago. Let her discuss this matter with a female doctor or some other female who is close to her and is married and having children. As she is new to the husband and wife relation she might have developed this phobia don't worry give her some time. Don't force this relationship on her. Proper counseling and care the above problem will be solved and life will be great. Stay blessed!
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Hello- Females are afraid of vaginal sex due to mis concepts of extreme pain. Talk to her and aware about the real facts of sex. Don't go for vaginal insertion straight away, practice foreplay, start with kissing , rubbing and even caressing her, you can also perform oral sex to make her comfortable. Insert finger at start when she is hot, always use artificial lubrication for insertion and when she is ready go for vaginal sex. It is not necessary that these steps should be taken in one sexual session , you have all the time in the world so take it slow. Some people also drink alcohol , to minimize pain and enhance sexual urge during first sex, it really helps.
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