I am 35 years old man. I got married with a beautiful girl in November 2014. She is 26 years old. I used to live alone as I am very introvert person. But my wife is very socialist, she easily interact with people. I like her qualities. As is speak less than her she does not like my quality. I don't have any bad habit like drinking and smoking, and I have no affairs. But I have a bad habit. I am very egoist person, which creates anger in me and my wife does not like this. I get anger on a small issues. I could not control on it. I don't hit her. I just ignore to talk with her. Now, this bad habit of mine created lots of problem in my life. My does not want to leave with me. How can I get her back. I love her so much. Please advice me what should I do?
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hello, since you well explained yr weak point , i suggest to meet her n explain also assure that you try to avoid an anger in petty matter n cooperate with her as your best. you also have to control your egoist because excess in egoist not spoil personal but family n social life too and more or less effect on carrier or business. Do some meditation , prayer , exercise , enjoy your free time with friends n family members and your partner likes activities , at this stage yr issue seems to a minor but if you failed to correct then might be effect on yr feature . best wishes
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Hello, Lybrate user It's not a demerit to b an introvert but U are scared of your beautiful wife ,being extrovert and going to intract with the people which makes you insecured. Moreover,conjugal life is basesd on mutual faith & understanding, none of a couple can live alone. Both of U require to modify your nature favourable & suitable to each other, this is of course possible discarding personal ego ,please ,else with the same problem will remain there with any body coming next in your life. Try to live in present, happily, U don't know what tomorrow will bring ,favourable to both of U. Go for meditation to nourish your body, reducing your stress to calm your nerve to cool down your anguish temperament improving your foresightedness to get rid of your ego. Tk, plenty of water to hydren your body to regulate metabolism. Your diet be regular, easily digestible on time. Avoid, nicotine,alcohol, junk food. Tk, homoeo medicine/ @ Ignatia 30-6 pills, thrice. Report fortnightly, Your feed back is solicited, please. Stay fit & wise.
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You must go for some anger management work to a counselor and only if you have resolved that problem should you call her also into counseling. There is no point trying to get her back without making the change that has been hampering the relationship so far. If she is so good and has all those lovely qualities, then you have gone and messed the relationship up and hopefully not to an irreparable level. It is not enough to have no bad qualities, you must be a satisfying husband and above all, she must be respected for who she is. The first tow years of any marriage is very critical to the future of that relationship and it seems you have already sabotaged it. You will need to start all over again but you will need some professional help and you must seek it fast.
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