Dear sir /madam my age was 22 and I am married and in year 2015 and I have a 2 months baby boy . My husband studied bsc degree and on the time of my marriage my husband was doing medical business and was running very good with the support of my father in law but unespectly my father in law died by an health problem and slowly our business got in loss present my husband was not doing any work and searching to get a job but my mother only wants a government job for my husband at present no body was supporting me I came to my mother's house for delivery I am suffering in between my mother and husband and mother in law I am totally in depression no body is there to understand me and its an arranged marriage there is a lots of pressure on me from both sides I can't bear the pressure an getting cry a lot please give me a solution or advice to solve my problem.

Dr. A.K. SrivastavaPsychologist10yrs exp

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Dear lybrate user lybrate-user life is full of ups and downs so don't be hopeless, you are the link between your husband and your mother nothing can change suddenly, I know its tough task but not impossible everything will be on track give some time and do few things. First of all make yourself calm because everything depends on you, just like if any bridge connecting the two roads will break then communication between 2 roads will block same case applies here, convince your mother that everyone does jobs for money prosperity and happiness so it does't matter whether its private or government so its fine if he does any job or business in the meanwhile he will try for government job for your wish, and also say that at the time of marriage he was in business. On the other hand you have to manage your in laws and this time your husband needs you more he has lost his father and problem in his business and if he will realise that at this time you are 100percent with him then then trust me the bond which will develop between both of you will be forever. If you need my help I will be haapy to help you. Take care. 

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Dr. Jagadeesan M.S.Psychiatrist13yrs exp

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The word depressed is a common everyday word. People might say" i'm depressed" when in fact they mean" i'm fed up because i've had a row, or failed an exam, or lost my job" etc. These ups and downs of life are common and normal. Most people recover quite quickly. With true depression, you have a low mood and other symptoms each day for at least two weeks consult a psychiatrist and get evaluated. 

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