Hi I need help im 20 years old boy mentally disturb I got admission in chennai in medical field I was quiet happy and energetic about the course but due to lack of communication and adjustment problem due to tamialins and malyalams who are against the north east people they hate im from northeast I got ragged to mentally for couples of month I was sick headache stress chest pain feeling low all the time couldn't concentrate on studies so I decided to change the college I did it now im trying to settle down in kolkata as the same course which I applied for but some people are saying why you change the college they share their option im confused did I take the right decision changing the college because that college is top india college I change due to not medically fit and fine every day I cry no body to talk with me all lonely homesick I was there for one year 2015 now im deciding to go kolkata did choose the right path im feeling guilty but I think from my point of view I did right but I do not why from inside something is itching please help to get rid out of this tension and stress give me some conclusion please help me im depressed all the time.
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Dear lybrate user...I can very well understand your pain and agony. Its very difficult to make adjustments with the people around while we are away from home. Even you mention about ragging as a problem which caused much more of stress and pain to you. Your question is itself the answer for you. The only thing which I here want to clarify is that just living does not help in a long run, living happily is what matters. In today's culture everyone around us just live to achieve and we forget to enjoy those achievements. If in life you are not able to enjoy your achievements (like in your case getting a top college) than living with those is just not worth it. Rather you live with something else (Kolkata) which is less as per the rankings but larger in providing you with happiness in life. Even in a smaller college you can fulfill your dream of becoming a doctor and if you are stress free there than you will be more happy and achieve more in your carreer. Whenever someone says something which does not resonate with your idea of changing the college, always remember that "Its better to live like a BIG FISH in a Small pond rather than living like a Small FISH in a big pond. Take care
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First thing consult a psychiatrist in your home place and find if the reasons for your thinking r clear. Chennai is a multipolar society and many people across country, whether the persecutory feeling you had are over exaggeration needs to be evaluated.
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Dear beta, You should take your decision. No can blem it But if you ignore all that fellows and concrete on your study, then everyting will overcome by producing a superb result. For mental problem I am assuring you that I wiil help you provided you should go through proper Characterized Homeopathic case recording for your individualized treatment else your problem will persist. Contact through Lybrate.
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