Hello doctor - I'm 30 years old women and have 4 months old baby boy. My first marriage life ended up in divorce in 6 months due to lack of misunderstanding on both side. I remarried a person 2 years ago and he is also a divorcee. In this marriage also there are lots of problems going on. All I expect from my husband is caring words. But he never talks gently. He is a kind of adamant and dominate person. I don't think he loves me and having this thought in my mind, I'm not able to obey his dominate words and not able to give up my self dignity. He never considered me, when I was pregnant. During tat time also he beated and shouted at me with bad words many times. It's been 6 months over that he met me. He didn't come to see my kid even. He used to find faults with everyone. I'm at my mom's house. He works in a IT company stays with his friends in B'lore. I was also worked with the same company but he forced me to resign. So my parent advice me to give up the job. Now I have no job also. What shall I do to make him love me. Every time I try to adjust but his harsh words and rude behaviour makes me worse and cry a lot. How to come up in my life. I have a younger sister aged 24. alway I think, my life should not affect her marriage proposal. Pls guide me.
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I am so sorry to hear about your life tragedy. Your life us to precious and you deserve. Much more than what you are getting. I would urge you to think about all your options and take well thought out and wise decision. Please don't look for any short cuts. Or short term outcome to make you happy on a long run. Please consult someone like counselor or a psychologist. Talk to her on a regular basis to truly understand what is happening and what are the options you have. You are young and seem to be quiet intelligent and fine person. Find. Someone in your city wit whom you feel comfortable to talk. If you are open to talk to someone online then feel free to contact me. My passion is marriage and family relationship and I want every single women to lead a happy authentic and courageous life where we are leaving to our fullest potentials. I truly wish you very best in life.
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You seem to be depressed due to marital disharmony. After ur 1st marriage failed, u should have for the 2nd only knowing and moving with the person for 1-2 years, even then people change after marriage. Now go for marital counselling, someone needs to talk with ur hubby to tone down and also hear his side of the story about u.
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