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Hello, Mam/Sir. A Guy loved me 3 years before, I did not realize it was love then! but, now am totally in love with him! But, he is married now! it's been 8 months since, he is married. But, he still loves me the same, And I want to live with him. I can't really get over him as well, his parents are not supporting and my parents are also against him now, once upon a time my parents liked him the most and in fact they compelled me to get married! which I denied. And am the only child. At my home they are seeking for a groom to which am not showing any interest, Moreover, am into clinical depression, I don't wish to see any of my friends, relatives, including my parents. Am facing these problems for the past 9 months. Am not working anywhere, Am at home all the time, am totally stuck into my room. All the time, I don't go out, my habit is to talk to him during his office hours! and rest of the time sleep for long time, watch series and watch videos, t these are my routines. I Am preparing for my highers but not able to concentrate, even if I don't speak for 1 hour am becoming mad . And my guy is not living with his wife. Like no intimate relationship. My heart is wishing to get back to him, soon. Am also scared about legal issues like divorce. I Don't know what to do . How to get back to him! please help me. How to get back to him?
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Hi lybrate-user, have guts, gather courage tell your guy to divorce and move on with you why be so scared about it when you both love each other, on the other hand if families reputation is involved and he is too weak to take a stand you are too weak then please let it go, there is no point continuing now. If he seriously feels he is destroying life of his wife he should think about separation otherwise there is no point hanging on to past.
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