Hi This is Vibhu I am 35 years old. I am facing a problem since my marriage. I am in quite depression because me and my wife are not staying together actually she is working out of the city the city is far away from town. This is a problem some other problems I have quoted below pls advise me what is solution. 1. There were some disputes at time of our marriage e. G. Cash transaction and some other issues related to dowry. 2.she doesn't want to stay with my parents in a single minutes she said they are fraudy people. 3. My salary is not enough to survive. 4.she has got government teaching job just after our marriage. 5. She misguiding her parents about me and my parent. 6.in my point of view she wants avoid to stay with us whereas my parents full filling all facilities to stay cool and happy together. So platelet me know what to do now.

Dr. Rama Krishna RayavarapuPsychologist20yrs exp

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If you have good salary. She listens your words. Now you are low. She is high. You have two sides are important. Better to talk to her in a pleasing manner. Tell the importance of your parents and your responsibilities. Give excessive priority to her in all aspects. Request to stay with my parents. Express your better loving words and impress her. She must listen your words. Do not argue and do not command. Because she is earning. You have no other options. Except requesting and pleasing manners is the only solution. Better to try to impress her. You have also talk to your parents. Take the advise of them. Ask what to do. Request there is any other solution in this side. If not then requesting wife is the solution. Do not think too much about this matters. It is common in all families. Everything come close one day. Do not spoil your health. Be friendly with others. Spend most of the time with friends and be sociable. Best of luck. 

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