I just married 2 months back and my wife on 2nd day started crying and telling me you are avoiding me if you are not interested you should have not married. For small small things she will get angry and she won't understand the situation. Yesterday she was asking any good news, I told to my wife we have married just 2 months back and you are asking good news in short period. I have done intercourse but it will take time. Please give me good answer for this so that I can show to my wife she won't believe what I tell? Please advise.

Dr. Sonali KhomaneHomeopath7yrs exp

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Hello your wife wants you attention from you . Please give more important to her . Bcoz she is newly married she feels alone . Go for movie , go for dinner , give some gifts every week . Like flowers, dresses, saree, perfumes. Feel her she is special for u. Talk her with proper manner , she is only asking any good news . And you r giving a lecture about marriage duration. Its wrong . U can say her you r my good news . U came in life and my life is now beautiful . Becoz of you . If she making lunch dinner tell her you cook nice . 1.Talk to her respectfully without demeaning her or hurting her feelings. 2. Find something that makes you laugh together. 3. Put your arms around her when she needs comfort, holding her silently. 4.Surprise her by doing something you think she would want done before she asks. 5. Show interest in that which she values as important in her life. 6.Be a good listener. Show her you value what she says. 7.Plan a mini-honeymoon, where the two of you can spend quality time together. 8.Go shopping with her and don’t sigh or look at what time it is even once. 9.Be especially helpful when she is not feeling well. 10.When she asks how your day went, don’t just say “fine” —actually give her details. 11. Don’t embarrass her by arguing with her in front of others. 12. Make eye contact when she is talking to you and when you are talking with her. 13.Surprise her from time-to-time with a card and flowers or a little gift. 14.Give her your undivided attention when she wants to talk. 15.Sit close to her —even when you are just watching television. 16.Do not making plans without her agreeing with them 16. Ask her and then listen to what makes her fearful and insecure (without judging) 17. Be careful to choose your words, especially when angry. 18.Hold her close and verbally express your love when she is hurt or discouraged. 19. Allow her to express herself freely, without fear of being called illogical or dumb. 20. Fix dinner for her sometimes. 21. Tell her (and show her) you love her often. 22.Don’t ignore the small things that bother her and let them build into bigger issues. 23.Call, email or text her when you’re apart so she knows you are thinking of her. 24.Show her affection without sexual intentions. Take care of her. 

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