Respected doc please give me advice I had a bf from last two years I love him alot. But he always lies me and always he cheat me .i loved him alot that's why I can't leave him . But his cheating frustrated me and I was stopped any talking to him . And I have new person in my life bcz I have a reserved nature that's why in relationship I don't want any sex with my bf . I want to marry with my bf but he always lies to me . When new one comes in my lyf I am starting move on from my past but he is also want to use and tympass with me not want to marry with me my second relationship is across 45 days bcz I do not want sex before marriage. And I leave him. But now my mind is totally upset all day and nyt . When I am got up have thoughts of both persons that why they are do that with me ?why everyone cheats me ? No one loves me ?i love both cordially but why they are cheat me ?all these thoughts are broke me I want move on in my lyf am trying but am not .when am going to sleep bcz of these thoughts I can not sleep well . Am starts crying when remember all that .please give me advice how I can recover from this situation and concentrate on my career. What I do now.
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Hi. It takes a lot of conviction and courage to stand by what one has decided and in your case you have stood your ground, be proud of it! your pain is understandable, you are probably feeling betrayed, hurt, confused and even rejected. It is difficult and painful to let go of a relationship that meant so much to you and to have it repeat again, can be devastating. Be gentle with yourself and don't indulge in self doubt. Any relationship is based on respect, trust, care and understanding, open communication being vital element. If you sensed that there wasn't much honesty from your partner, then trusting him would have been difficult. Don't blame yourself over it. You are very young and there will be many opportunities to meet the right kind of person for you. Concentrate on building up your career goals and close relationships (family and friends), this will provide a sound holding or support for you. If you still find yourself upset for longer time then consult a counsellor/psychologist to explore further. Take care.
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