My relationship is in a mess I'm not getting sleep and I can't eat anything beacuse of the stress my boyfriend restricts me in each and everything I do he is abusive abt my pains but he loves me equally too much he loves also what should I do.
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Love does not inflict any pain. You may get used to living in and believing that pain and love go together in this relationship. You will then suffer all your life with this person. Take him to a relationship counselor and discuss his insecurity around you. He is using abusive controlling methods to keep you to him and the fear is that when you get used to it you will also want that to confirm for yourself that the person who abuses you genuinely loves you! Please stop this behavior and get some professional help soon.
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In a relationship both partners need to have mutual respect, communication and understanding of each other. If any of these components are missing, relationship would suffer. Its important to understand each other as individual selves and giving personal space and freedom, otherwise conflicts are likely to arise from both sides. To discuss each other needs and what is it that needs to work upon in a relation is another significant requirement. For this, consult a clinical psychologist or a couple therapist who can understand the problem in detail.
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