Hi, I am having some serious sexual problem please assist . I got married last year and having a very worse life in sex as I am getting failed continuously in sex due to pre ejaculation. When ever I tried to insert my penis it is getting weak and getting ejaculated due to that I also feeling back pain. Please help in in overcoming the issue and getting successful in sex and married life.

Dr. M.S AmbekarSexologist25yrs exp

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Hi, I had gone through your question and understand your concerns, the ability to finish early and quickly can be advantageous in many areas in life, but not when it comes to sex. Premature ejaculation is a common and often distressing problem for couples who simply want to find ways to make sex last longer. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual dysfunction in men, however very few ever talk about it due to embarrassments. No one is born with the ability to control ejaculation. Men can learn to control ejaculation similar to the way bladder control (toilet training) is learned at young age. Male and female differ widely in terms of of sexual responses, male gets quickly aroused and female takes longer time to get aroused, male reaches climax quickly, its physiological and normal, but not ideal, to prolong sex duration man has to work hard, he has to slow down mentally, by diverting mind from situation, and learn ways how to delay his reflexes. One idea is to stimulate the partner by foreplay to near orgasm sate and penetrate. Count number of strokes if it is less than 45 plus minus 15. Means (30 to 60) then seek medical advice. If satisfied ok otherwise consult. 

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