Sir, I am very far to home .I and my lover both of very correct in love .we are in love since 5 years BT since two years she used to abuse as well as always told to me that if you are not in my life I am very safe once you came my total life was smashed like this and also telling I always wants get higher studies due to you r reason I am not build up anything .some times she loves very much to me but if unwanted discus or any thing found like if some body who is smaller than to her age gets job after heard that total depression and totally angered on me .now I am in confusion really she want to me or not .due to this reason I am not pay concentrate on my job as well as my family and also I am missing my happiness day by day .please advise me what to do for me .I am really loves her .thanking you sir.
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Hello, if you both are in love, you both must be happy with each other. In love, person feel gratitude to loved one. If someone is blaming his/her loved one for own failure or unhappiness means they are on wrong tract. If disputes are more and you are not able to coping up with it, then better to choose your own way. First you have to analyze the situation. Pain of separation is temporary, but if you continue with dissatisfaction, then it will continue for lifetime.
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Dear lybrate-user, as I understand that your have problem in your relationship with your girl. You are unable to decide. This problem in interfering with your job and family. You are also not happy these days. You need problem solving counselling for the time being. Later is there is any other problem, we can work on it. Problem solving counselling can be done through private questions, audio and video consultations with any clinical psychologist or psychiatric social worker or psychiatrist. Please arrange for it before you lose your job and happiness.
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