How to control strong desires for sex. It almost ruining my whole thinking capability, each time I saw any good looking girl, something from inside me tell to have sex with her, and at the end of day I feel guilt for those thoughts.
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Engage yourself in some kind of work activity.
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Hello- correct your diet and schedule to make your thoughts positive. Intake of non-veg, eggs, fast foods, watching porn makes your thoughts bad so avoid them. Intake of dairy products, vegetarian meals, and lots of water produces a positive vibe in your body. Practice meditation (specially a religious one) to conquer your mind.
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If you feel guilty for having those thoughts, it is a sign that you have a good conscience. At your age your sexual drive may be more heightened than others, and you may have been deprived of female companions, or have been cautioned too strongly against relating to girls. Any or all of these things can stimulate a greater drive in your libido and so there will be an extraordinary sexual urge. You must learn to mingle with girls and study how they function and what kind of drives they undergo. They are human beings like us and have their needs too but there are some strong differences and some very subtle ones. These make them attractive and desirable. But if you let your strong drives influence you, you will lose control and become an embarrassment to yourself and to them. You must learn that all contact with girls is not about sex. They also want to love and be loved but not in brash and ungentlemanly ways. You need to reflect a lot of culture to truly make an impact. You need to spend time with them and develop control over your urges. But during this time you could (driven by the hormones) do something inadvertent that there may be no turning the clock back. So you need to exercise control and channelize this energy through games and sports and hobbies. Also you would have developed secondary sexual characteristics and they seek to be used and seek fulfillment. Again this is not a problem but the drive can be very bad for those who do not have sufficiently well developed value systems or a good conscience. These kids can lose control and become reckless. Most kids have a problem, like you do, around their sexual urges and may resort to acting out in the form of masturbation, pornography, and other sexual exploits. If you indulge in any of these you can get into a guilt trip or develop an addiction that may plague you for a long time. Your character will certainly be tested, and it will reflect your development in this regard. The best thing to do is to get a sex education from a counselor and ask all the questions you wish answered. Otherwise you will want to experiment or seek information from your peers who are not adequately qualified to really do justice to your queries.
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