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I am a retired professional engineer having worked as high a level as CEO & retired in 2014. I am from a Lower Middle Class family of a govt servant in Delhi with 6 six siblings. Father died at an early age of 52 in 1968. My mother & brothers & sister brought me up in an environment fully enjoyable depended & a very happy 15 years . I then went on to do my PG in Eng from Indian Institute of Science . All by my own without disturbing my brothers for financial aids etc. I got a very good career & I planned my career to become a CEO by 50 which I became when I was 52. Yes I have been fairly successful in my career. I got married into a HIG family and had 2 loving children who have succeeded well in their life and one is married & the other is getting married shortly. I was fortunate enough to educate them in US & feel proud of them & have spend close to 80 lacs for their education & marriage. My wife is a very helpful & a very good mother and she has a twin sister who is married & is very rich & over influencing. My wife is very close to her. I have been having frequent surgeries about 15 so far all due to accident or birth defects latest being colon disorder which required an 8 hr surgery. I am diabetic but healthy & can stand in a factory for 8 hrs without getting tired? My Problem My family has been very toxic towards me Anything I say or do is either wrong or is verified Now that I am retired I am not shown any respect & decisions are taken without any info to me . I do not feel being there. I feel second rate family member though lot of concern is shown on me. I feel drained & very anxious what will happen to me. I am left with just a little savings and I have to work to earn a sustaining salary . I cannot afford any more spending & I have to be assertive about this. Can I change myself to accept what is happening. Do I change the environment ? How do I project myself to be happy & can be a good part of a celebration . My children know all this but are biased towards my wife I do not resent this I have accepted this as natural . Please guide me.


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