Dear sir/mam, I am male 40 my wife at 33 married since 15 years having two children she at 14 and son is at 7.this is my short and sweet family. We were happy but serious problem arise just before one year. Actually since past 4 year when one another family made entry between us as her friends up to 3 years of their friendship I ignored many mental distresses from her friends but from last one year this friendship turned into disruption of our relationship and it cured me a very largely mentally, physically and economically. So I took decisions to restrict relationship with her friends since last 6 months. This causes untrust between us husband and wife. She is not cooperating me. She is fighting with me. I tried a lot to make understand my wife with love and trust. I always used to get fight but she always produce cause to fight. Now I'm thinking what things I could not provide them to make my family happy. I did all best. She forget everything even my soul attachment to her my love to her. She kept remember one thing only her friends. Im not so important to her .she is crying ,I'm crying since 6 months but she is not ready to leave them. She is ready to leave me my children and my home. She is warning me to do suicide for these people. This lead me broken heart, untrust,losing everything. Feeling a defeated man. Im feel high great anxiety. Almost crying day night. Im not able to do everyday task normally. My soul is filled with darkness. Pls advise me. What should I do.
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You should immediately visit a marriage counselor and sort this matter out. While it was not a good decision to make her abandon her friends, it may have been necessary for various reasons that you have mentioned. However, you will be quite subjective in your judgement and so it is advisable to get a professional opinion on the basis of facts as narrated to that person. Friends can have both good and bad influences but it depends a lot on perception too. It is likely that your wife does not have enough social life and she may be extrovertive in nature which will make her want company a lot. If she is not working, then that craving for company will be even more. These matters may be discussed opening with her but if you are insistent of your way only, then you will need a third person's intervention. Do not delay this any further because of the talk of suicide and also these may develop to a point of no return. Then it will be too late. Counseling should continue as an ongoing process until the matter is resolved completely.
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