Hello doctor I am a 35 year old married female with 2 children aged 13 and 2 1/2 year. Have been married for more than 16 years now into an inter religious way. I am a hindu and my husband a muslim. Now I am in a relationship with a colleague of mine who is also married with a child. I am happy being with him in all ways whether it is mental, physical, sexual or financial. Sometimes I feel I am doing wrong but I cannot help because my husband is not supportive in terms of financial or any physical way he earns nut lesser than me and does not take care of any expenses or savings of the family I am the one who is doing this since many years. My and the person I am in relationship with are none in favour of ruining our individual married life. Sorry to mention that he is also not satisfied with his wife in sexual or mental way. I am in a fix as to what to do as I cannot tell about this to anybody and the daily arguments in teh family lead to me and my husband not speaking to each other. I at one point do not want to break my marriage but sometimes feel its difficult to stay with him anymore. I am earning good and can and have been take care of my children solely. Please guide on what measures should I take. I am happily in love with my colleague and when I am with him or around him I happen to live my life the way I had always dreamt of being happy. Will be thankful if you give me a good advice on what to do.