I am a 39 year old male. I have never had sex. In d past I was used to smoke marijuana and consume alcohol too. It has been an year since I hv been a teetotaller. At the age of 28, I had got the opportunity to hv sec but could not as the moment I was ready my erection went off. At age age of 36 again I got the opportunity twice but then the same happened. Now I am into a stable relationship. I want sex now. Its not that I do not get erection or its a case of erectile dysfunction. Also on getting second opportunity to hv sex I consumed a pill vigora for stable erection but that did not work. Suggest what could be d possible cause. What precaution should I take to make it happen. Thanx n regards,

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Dr. Vikas KhannaPsychologist17yrs exp

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The center of sex is in the mind and not in the organs. The fear of outcome in any action hampers it. So the performance pressure, you are putting on yourself is causing the current problem just go with a mind-set of having good time and not as if you are going for a competitive exam, where you should outscore others! also don't fear of losing her. Just relax.

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