Now I'm 23 years old starting from my childhood I'm a pampered kid all the decisions related to my life and career are made by parent's and family. All the time they use to find mistakes in me and they use to compare me with others. At one point of time they have decided that I'm an useless stupid. My parents have lots of complaints with my attitude, conduct, character and each and every aspect. On the other side my friend's and teachers have supported me a lot they never had a complaint with me. In my entire school and collage life there were 3 to 4 simple complaints on me regarding my academics. So I use to think that my family loves me a lot they want me to be best in each and every aspect. That's y they have lots and lots of complaints with me. But now I have completed my b-tech and now I was not ready to listen my parents any more. But now I was completely confused I don't know what I have to do next. For simple reasons I'm getting angry. Some times I'm crying without any reason. All the time I'm feeling alone and depressed. What I have to do.
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Hello dear do not worry actually your parents care you very much. But due to extra care unfortunately your decision making power is not developed properly. But it is not so difficult. Start from today. Take regular morning walk. Make friends of your age group. Try to do things on your own. It will ruin sometimes but let it. After regular and many trials you will b able to take proper decisions. Do not worry. Many fortunate kids go through this conditions as they have loving parents.
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Though your past has an effect on your personality it is not completely responsible for the state of things you are in. You not able to listen to your parents at all is just a reaction which can be conveyed in a better and rational manner. Anger is an unhealthy negative emotion, while annoyance is not. If you do not wish to do as your parents want it's okay. But your anger only tells that you are against your parents, not only their decision, that is wrong. You need to consult psychotherapist or psychiatrist for counseling and if possible few sessions on rational emotive therapy. Medications can be added if required.
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