Hi. I am 27 years old girl. I have a friend. 10 years of friendship. I am very much possessive on her. And she too on me. But these days past 4 months. She has got other close friend. She is talking and spending more time with her. I can not tolerate the pain. My heart palpitate when I think of the two. Not able to do my regular work even. Always tears on my eyes when I think of them. I want to forget her. Or I need her. What can I do. Please help me. I am dying.
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A true friendship means you accept the other person as they are and respect their choices. Meeting different people at different times in life is part of life, people come, people go, and life moves on. In any relationship if you become too possessive of the other person and become clingy, people will not like you. You should pursue your own interests like studies, hobbies, job or social outings. Once you get up from here and start mingling around you will get many more friends.
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Dear lybrate-user, I am sorry to learn about your situation. Well, it is beyond our control whether a person will stay in our lives or not. Please don't worry. Give yourself some time. In 3 months time it will not hurt so much and in 6 months time you will feel much much better. Some wise person once said" if you love someone truly set them free, if they are your's they will come back to you, if they don't they were never yours. In setting others free we set ourselves also free. Don't be sad about your friend having another friend. Think about the beautiful memories you have with her, smile and wish well for her. Engage in activities like singing, listening to music, reading poetry, writing your thoughts or poems, making painting, drawing, coloring, stitching, knitting, dancing- whatever you like. Doing any of these activities has therapeutic value. Once again, don't worry and please focus over doing things you like to do. You will feel better, soon.
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