I want to perfect in life regarding abt sex life. So please suggest me good values. M just 23 years n m facing problem of sex life. Like nightfall. Early eject with 5 sec. No thickness. No spark of sex. please suggest. To whch doctors il consult to knw abt sex.
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Very nice for you that you are aware and valuing your sexual/future marital life. All these issues are absolutely manageable and learnt with the guidance from a expert sexologist if you are willing to spend time with expert. Such things are common with all boys/girls because they are learning form hearsay talks and porn watching this make them confused about themselves and their future sex lives. Move on, connect quickly with expert and be wiser in one of the most important aspect of life. Also be aware and don't try shortcuts by looking for medicines because quality sex life is a leaned skill and not achieved with small time medicines available in market and usually prescribed. Take care, all the best.
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Dear lybrate user,
kindly note that if you are unmarried & indulge in sexual relation after an interval of minimum 7 days then you are bound to discharge quickly during intercourse but that does not imply that you have any disease. It occurs due to loss of control of the muscles of penis. Normally it is seen that when a person does sexual intercourse daily he gains control over the muscles of penis & can stay longer during sex.
First of all let me make it clear that you may experience nightfalls for twice in a month if you do not have a habit of masturbation or if you do not indulge in any sexual intercourse. However, if you experience nightfalls for more than twice in a month then it is surely abnormal.
Every person experience an erection after a sleep of 6-8 hours. Such an erection during waking up from sleep is a typical characteristic of normal sexual system. An uninterrupted sleep of 6-8 hours pacifies the nerves which get hyper-activated after a long day's work & results in a sexual arousal by channelising the blood flow towards the male sexual system.
But an erected penis cannot ejaculate involuntarily unless it is being rubbed as it undergoes during masturbation & sexual intercourse. Involuntary ejaculation of semen indicates that the internal muscles of your pelvic region are not strong enough to control the outflow of semen.
However, nightfalls indicate that you are having a normal erection as well as it also proves that there is no deficit of sperm production in testis. Nightfall implies that there is only loss of control of the pelvic muscles. It is often observed that an unmarried person suffering from nightfalls complains of premature ejaculation after marriage if his problem of nightfalls is left untreated. The cause behind such quick discharge during sex is same as it is in case of nightfalls i. E. Loss of the control of the muscles of pelvic region.
To get rid of nightfalls carry on the following medication as directed:- 1) 5 drops of homoeopathic china 30 or cinchona officinalis 30, thrice daily, in empty stomach.
2) take 30 drops of homoeopathic mother tincture ashwagandha q in a cup of water daily after lunch
apart from medicines you could try a home therapy. Soak 5 grams of fennel seeds (snouff) & 5 grams of rock candy (misri) in a glass of water before going to bed daily. On waking up next morning drink the snouf-misri soaked water in empty stomach.
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