I am 60 years Wife and two sons. No physical Relation with wife for last 8 years due to misunderstanding etc. Having a steady girlfriend aged 32 years for the last 10 years. She is totally devoted to me. Occasionally we had sex. Recently I am feeling depressed. I am trying to be physically and mentally healthy and happy. I don't take any medication for a long period. Nowadays I am unable to have sex because my penis unable to erect properly. I know If I can enjoy sex, I will be alright again. My wife and I myself sleep in separate bedrooms. I tried to convince her, mistake is a mistake. Forget and forgive me. Though we are in talking terms nowadays. Her health also deteriorated. Sons are well established. I am at a peculiar situation. Main problem is loneliness. If I want to see my girlfriend I have to go to her residence. I tried to have sex at her residence but could not perform. Nothing wrong in our relationship. It is mutually consented. Only two months back I was on tour with my girlfriend. I had sex with her three times in a day. We were satisfied and happy. Frankly speaking I am experimenting the key issue of being healthy and happy. I used to meditate, one hour walking from 6 am to 7 am and walking in relaxing mood in the evening for an hour. I want to remain perfectly happy and healthy in a natural way. I pray everyday that everybody should be happy and healthy and all of us should enjoy our life in perfection. Thank you.
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As far as indian culture is considered you are on the wrong side. Wife is not a tool for you to use as and when necessary. This kind of nonrighteous act will produce much stress on your body and mind which may turn to diseases.
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Sir I understand your physical and psychological problem. I agree that men are always very concious about their sexual life. Even in eighties they do not want to be deprived of sexual life. In fact all the androgeic hormones are active in sexual life that keeps our lifes vigour and vitality. The problem now is with years wife for not co-operative with you. You should realise that che is depressed and dejected with years life style. Such ladies can not co - operate with you specially in sexual matters. Secondly because of her age and physical condition she has decreased libido. Inthese circumstances do not compel or expect sex from years wife. But continue to give her care love and respect in her life. She wpould then lead a happy and peaceful life with u. You are still healthy as you could perform with your friend. You enjoy years life and let years wife be happy with you without sex which has no taste or meaning in her life. No medications needed. You need to change years thinking and way ofapproach to your wife. Thank you best of luckdr.
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