M 27 female. I love a person who younger then me. His age 21 we both love each other. I cannot live without him. Can you please suggest any age problem with our relationship. I want to Marry him and his also. But now he is studying. Usne apne ghar par mere bare mein bhi bataya hai ki main badi hu usse but 1-2 saal jyada ni. Kya aage chalkar age issue matter karega. Please suggest.

Ms. Hemal Sanjay KuntePsychologist5yrs exp

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For a couple to stay together, emotional, intellectual and sexual compatibility matters a lot. What you both think about this age gap and you being older, matters a lot. Do you think, you can think about him as an equal partner and not someone younger to you, after you get married? because otherwise you will keep" mothering" him and the relation may suffer. It is also important for you to understand what you both want from life. Talk to him about his expectations from his spouse, about his dreams, etc and talk to him about your expectations and dreams. Also think, that in case you both have some opposition from your respective families, then would you still like to go ahead with this relation? sexual compatability can be a major cause of concern. Please discuss about it with him. If possible, go to a marriage counsellor. Then it will be easier for you to take this decision. 

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