Am 28 n hubby s 33. I feel we don't have intimacy n privacy. He told b4 mrg that we ll stay with parents. Bt am feeling different to tell parents all matters regarding gng out, buyg things etc. They all include my hubby not intrstd in send me to my mom home. Bt I need to go to home monthly a week as I need my baby to grow thr also. Can any psychologist help in this?

Ms. Juhi ParasharPsychologist4yrs exp

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Hi, I am sure adjustments have to be made from both side. As they say when you marry you do not just marry a man but his whole family. So I think try to think differently about their motives and actions to feel better rather than suspsicious or caught up. May be sending you every month is not feasible for them due to any problem or constraints talk with him politely and ask him- may be you can go once in 3-4 months that would be a better option. He will grow and learn from your parents as well do not worry about that. Try to establish a frank and friendly behavior with your in laws do not be hesitant in saying what you feel but just say it with utmost respect. 

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