Doctor I have everything in life a good father and a mother n good family and I am 29 year old male but I have some problem since childhood only I am suffering from depression now here only I am showing psychiatric doctor and been on medication. I think my reason behind my depression is since childhood only I am attracted to male I donno why? Does it mean I am gay? Now I am almost came for marriage stage and I do not know I am gay or wht? And another thing is that I do not want to be a gay at all need heterosexual lifestyle so please tel me doctor can I marry a girl and lead a good life? And is it necessary to change the thought process?
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Your sexual attraction towards other males is not because of your thought process. It is probably because of your sexual inclination, or some childhood experience and it is your physical need. I can imagine that you are not comfortable accepting this fact. Actually, to find out whether you are gay or heterosexual, it is advisable to talk to a counsellor or a sexologist. Some encounters with males in you childhood does not make you gay, but now how you feel matters more. So please consult a counsellor or a sexologist. Till then do not get married, because you will not be happy in heterosexual marriage if you are gay. If in spite of knowing that you are getting attracted to males if you marry a girl, you will have trouble when she will find out. Once your sexuality is understood by you, you are likely to get rid you your depression and anxiety.
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