Good evening Doc I will be very frank in putting up this problem and seriously don't what to do about it. I started dating a girl where in everything was fine until we decided to get physical. It was a month after we started seeing each other. When we started getting close I had a boner and as I was reaching to do the thing. My penis don't int erect. And you can imagine it was embarrassing. I tried it. But it dint happen. I was shit scared. On the very next day I went and met a doctor at my hometown and told him about the same. And got myself tested for everything testerone level. And lot more. Even the ultrasound. I was diagnosed with mild hydrocele in my right ball. Rest all reports came normal. I started taking medicine for the same and I guess it will take a month to recover from hydrocele. But even after that we met and thought of doing it. But I was scared and was worried of the repetition of the last incident. Now I am double scared. What next - basically mentally disturbed - as I never faced this problem in my last relationship. Bit history of my sexual life. I was dating a girl earlier and having physical intercourse was a normal thing. Infact I was good at it. I loved her deeply and we were together for four years - so the bonding was too much. Also I never faced any problem when it came to sex. I broke up with her in March last year and was in depression for quite some time. To add to my problems - in April last year (month after my break up) - I started having pain in my right ball without having any injury or anything (unprotected sex with third person or so). And later was diagnosed with epididymitis. After medication - the pain went off but my right ball was always swollen. But recently few days before I was about to get physical with my second girl friend - I had pain in my scrotum. I thought once I will go to my hometown I will show. But before I could go on leave (I stay in an another city - away from my hometown) and show to a doctor. I met my gf and had that embarrassing moment. Now I want to know y I dint get the erection- (A) was it because of the hydrocele and what are the future symptoms and when I will be fit to do the intercourse again. (B) I also feel that I was way to close to my ex gf and had sex only with her in my life - so moving on to second girl might be making mind fuzzy and disturbed. As I loved her a lot. (C) what else it could be - and what's the way ahead. (D) Also should I go for some power capsule or something just prior to sex with my new girl friend - as you can't imagine how sacred I am to have sex with her after the last incidence. Can you suggest some capsules for the same. Doc I will be very thankful to you - if you tell me something Positive on this. I am not getting time to visit a doctor - as my job profile is like that. So had to look for online consultation.