Hello im 26 year married man. From last few years I feel like I get attract toward other male. Mentally I don't accept myself as gay or bisexual. But this feeling make me confuse. I want to live a normal life with my wife. Is there any treatment to get rid of this feeling?

Dr. Armaan PandeyPsychiatrist10yrs exp

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Every thought or feeling that comes in your mind / brain is natural. Homosexual thoughts are very common in both men and women. 100% of people in the world have them. If you are attracted to your wife and have a stable and happy married life, then I would suggest that you treat these thoughts just like a heterosexual attraction. Just like you would brush away feelings of attraction towards another woman, ignore these thoughts and feelings as straying of the mind. Calling a thought unimportant is the best way to help it fade away. The more you pay attention to it, stronger it becomes. However, if the attraction you feel is very strong, you are unhappy in your marriage, you feel uncomfortable in your current sexual role, then it's time to introspect who you really are. What you do about it is another matter all together. 

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