I masturbate 4-5 times a week or sometimes once a day. While masturbating I ejaculate within 30 seconds. I do it very fast. I never had sex before. But I think it could be big issue for me. I have read that a guy must hold on at least 15-20mins. I have used start and stop method also but its not helping Kindly tell me the ideal time to ejaculate to give complete satisfaction to the partner and how to control your ejaculation till that time; Thanks.
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Masturbation is not harmful to health. So do not worry. Masturbation is also a time when one can learn about body responses. Be gentle at madturbation. Use lubricant to masturbate. And enjoy the sensation given by the manual handling. Be slow and do not be in hurry. Do it when you have time. During masturbation you realise when semen is going to be discharged. Before this squeeze the head of your penis betwern thumb and index finger for few seconds. This will stop the ejaculatory reflex. And if properly done you will not discharge. This squeeze also reduces the hardness a bit. But then re sume masturbation to get hardness and repeat this. When you can postpone your ejaculation for a good 15-30 min. It will teach you how to hold ejaculation when you will be with your parter. So learn this technique and practice it. There is no'ideal' time for ejaculation. It depends on persons involved. Satisfaction of a female at sex is not dependent on'amount' of time penile thrusting is done but it is dependent upon whether clitoris is getting massaged at coitus. In the usual missionary position the penis doesnot stimulate the clitoris. So one has to learn to massage the clitoris to make the partner aroused and achieve orgasm. Men who see porn get the feeling that they must last for 15 minutes. Its not the norm. The pornstars have multiple sexual scenes which are edited and presented as a single scene. So ejaculation and female sexual satisfaction lies in your hand. How you use your technique matters.
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