I am 28 years old my life was great and everything was going awsome, but one year back I ended up with my long time relation, I was shattered at that time but now I am gaining back and struggling back while preparing hard to clear some prestigious exam of our country but the problem is I still have those past memories revolving in my mind which acts as an obstruction. Sometimes I still get dreams of my past life with her. What you suggest how I should get out of it?
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I think you are doing well so far. You may need to look at forging your ex to help you move on. Forgetting it not possible for a long time because it is a memory, and since there were definitely good times, they will linger for some more time. When you are ready and desire another relationship there will be a lot of ease in terminating the old memories but it will be gradual. Quickly get rid of all reminders of this girl, and do not visit the old haunts that you and this girl used to frequent. For some time avoid people, places, and situations that you two enjoyed. In the meantime, please talk extensively to a confidante or counselor about your feelings and thoughts to externalize it out of your system. Do not bad mouth the girl for any reason but go about your life as quickly and normally as possible. Don?t get into another relationship until you have dealt with this loss completely. Whatever happened with yoru ex you need to remember that this is the kind of person she is and do not generalize this to other girls and brand them into the same category. There is surely a girl who is deserving of such loyalty and commitment. But learn your lessons and do not repeat them when you are into another. Keep these three values in mind: be responsible, be respectful, and be functional, always.
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