I and my husband are love each other very much but there's alot of financial struggle in our life due to which his behaviour has became very rude we fight alot. We both feel depressed feel like doing suicide what should we do?
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Lybrate-user, struggle is a part of everyone's life, it does not mean you give up. Stay, fight and overcome it. This phase too shall pass. Be cooperative to each other, infact you can help him by taking up a small job. Be each other's support and not just find an escape. Things will be fine you need to trust god and attract positivity from universe by thinking positive thoughts. People who are below poverty line are also surviving and with happy faces. So, I assume you are at a better position do not let materialistic things end your lives.
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All problems are actually solvable although we may not have as yet found the solution. You are both in it together and life will continue to throw challenges at you, again and again. Each time you overcome a particular situation you will indeed feel proud. In order to face a problem of any kind, unity is essential and if you two bicker with each other you will not be able to tackle this financial situation at all. Your strength lies in your togetherness. So please do meet with a marriage counselor and get help about being together and facing life. You will need a third person's involvement. Love is the key to any relationship. Your love looks like it has been shattered by monetary considerations. You cannot give into this in place of love. Please renew your love for each other. I am also certain that faith and spirituality is not an integral part of your life: therefore the struggle. In the bargain it is a good opportunity to renew your faith in the one above. If you are a christian, I am really shocked by your desperation. I have always said this in some sermons I have given: that the person who reads the bible daily and prays daily will never contemplate suicide. This is an absolute truth: the bible is life-giving. Go meet a pastor too and build your faith with renewed vigor: god is always waiting to help you, if you have faith and are obedient to him.
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