Hi I am in 7 yrs relationship but now the man is changed and I am suffering from personal life carrer and from home please I have tried comitt sucide
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Suicide is no solution. Don? t ever die for another man unless you do so in an attempt to save the person. Your life is your gift to you by god: you must therefore treasure it and look after it as something very special and precious. I was not clear in your question when you say? the man is changed. Has he changed and become a bad person, or are you saying that he has left you for another? I suppose you mean the latter. I know that 7 years is a long time of knowing a person and presumably you thought that it was all sewed up and stitched. If he left because of something you did or said, you must introspect and see how serious that was, or has he chosen to make it bigger than what it is. If he was looking for a chance to get out of the relationship and found one, he is not worth the salt. Whatever the explanation, you must take it as good riddance to bad rubbish. But it is difficult and very painful, and perhaps disgraceful in front of all your friends. However, it is for this reason more so that you are saying you do not want to be in a relationship where the other person is not interested in you. You must get back to your career and get going with your life. There are three things you must do: be responsible, be respectful, and be functional, whatever happens. Get rid of all reminders of this guy and do not go to places, people and situations that you two used to frequent. And above all talk extensively about this relationship until it is exhausted from your system. But do not go around giving him bad publicity. Do talk to a confidante or counselor. At your age it must be extremely shattering but that gives you more reason to prove to yourself that you are made of better stuff than this. Love yourself enough to take this in your stride but do not go into victim mode. You will one day look back at this relationship and wonder why you were into it for so long. Believe me, it will defy all logic.
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