Hi, I am a 26 years girl. From childhood I was taught that drinking alcohol is bad. I would dislike people who drink alcohol. Now my fiancee drinks alcohol. After relationship with me he drinks less. I mean compared to his past, its less. I mean casually some 3 to 4 times in a year. I love him a lot. But just this one thing bothers me a lot. I get angry or argue with him regarding his drinking. I am bit short tempered also. I am afraid if because of this distance might increase between him and me. Kindly suggest how to handle myself during such situation.

Dr. Ramneek GuptaHomeopath26yrs exp

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You must be atleast satisfied that he has tried to control his drinking habit because of you .Love has a great power as everybody knows it,and I think your love is strong enough and this is just the start of your life.Dont abuse him or be short tempered as I think he is already trying to control and finally quit this habit.Dont try to surpass the Male Ego as he loves you very much and once out of temper you pass that threshold level ,his ego can get hurt and Males have a tendency to do opposite in that condition and in that condition as you also loves him very mush,it will become difficult for both of you to handle situations.So try to be calm and most of the wars are won with cool mind and extreme love ,so you will have to win your war with love,affection and maturity and even your fiancee will like ie and will think of you in high spirits.Best of luck. 

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