My 12 daughter is intelligent, but i have a tough time making her study. As if she studies just for my compulsion. She hates me during exams. How to to make her responsible?
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I don?t know if this is new behavior. If it is, then the adolescent period will have quite a say about that. The age gap between you and your daughter indicates that you gave birth to her rather late in your life: something like in your late forties. This has some implications and you could expect to encounter certain problems because of it. So an academic counselor is highly recommended. The generation gap would also show pronounced variations in your thinking and values. She could also be embarrassed about this in school, among friends, and in her social circles. In view of all this it is important to come down to her level (if you can, that is) and understand her needs and wants and that of her generation. This is where a young counselor will help. Girls in particular tend to become responsible about their studies by this time. So you will need to emphasize the importance of studies in life, among her peers, and that any detention in the previous class will isolate her from her age-group friends and pitch her among lesser equals. These appealing values, if incorporated with love, will have a huge bearing on her outlook. You must become her friend and withdraw parenting to the background. Find out what her generation likes and try to see their view and concept to be able to ally with her. Anything enforced will leave a bad taste and spoil your relationship. You say that she is intelligent, then trust her in her studies to deliver in line with her mental acuity. Her father can play a life-changing role in all this. Get her some tutoring, if necessary. But the best would be to de-emphasize studies and appreciate and focus on character development. If that is good, you can step back and let nature take its course; and you can devote a lot of time and energy giving her love and affection. What a great time you will all have!
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Let her be in an environment where she can find friends and can see and learn naturally. Do not scold do not beat. Be cool , let her feel the necessity to study naturally. The instinct inside her body is not generating. This is how we are built. She may lose 1 year or 2. But do not do anything so that she turns to be a psycho patient. You will lose her for ever.
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