I am getting tensed. Get irritated on anything. I feel whatever is told to by any one even so close to me is all wrong and talkbalwas end up in arguments and fighting. What is the reason forbthid be how be can it be solved

Ms. Samiksha JainPsychologist11yrs exp

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Everyone thinks differently and have different opinions. If you are feeling that generally people don't agree with you/ they should always agree with you, then irritation etc will occur. Talking without blaming, listening to others, putting your point across without expecting them to agree with you, can reduce friction to some extent. You also need to know how others perceive you as you see them wrong and talking bakwas all the time. What do you think of them when they argue with you? It is indeed difficult if there are fights all the time. What did you do differently, when you didn't fight once and there was harmony between you people. Humans need to live in harmonious surroundings to excel in life and have meaningful relationships. When you have peace within you, you will be happy, accepting and loving outside with people. A counsellor will help you to understand what are some of your issues and what values guide you through your life. It is a self discovery journey which is very beneficial in enhancing the quality of your relationships. 

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