Don't know why my hubby don't want to spend time with me. Even he doesn't want to talk with me. He comes home at late night and just want k nobody disturb him not even I and just want to sleep. I am dying with this attitude. I want his love and his attention. What can I do? How can I get my sexual as well as martial life healthy? Please help me. Please.
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There is something terribly wrong in this lifestyle. Please talk to him on his day off, and get a commitment from him. If he is unwilling to discuss this with you, take him to a counselor. If he is unwilling to come to the counselor, some of them will be willing to come home. If that seems a little difficult, then ask an elder in the family that he respects, to talk to him, and if necessary in confidence. If all this fails to get a response, then you may have to leverage with some threat of wanting out of the relationship. See how he reacts and take a cue from his response. Nowadays, you have to be street smart as a wife: you will need to entice him with some seduction, good food, dressing well, having a nice scent, and talking to him well too. You must also look attractive and appealing to make him so that he wants you, desperately. If there is a sexual performance issue, find out and visit a sexologist with him. This is an area men will not want revealed and will not want to admit it out of embarrassment. That is understandable and you could be discrete and willing to help, up to a certain point. If he continues to ignore you, you can threaten to expose him. Judge the situation well to make sure that he does not explode into violence. But you must not live in a marriage with no affection, no love, no communication, no sex, and no sign of them in the near future too. This is very unfair, unless he has a medical or psychological reason.
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Hello Cherry First of all you try to reax. Secondly how long this is ahppening? What is past marital and sexual History What is your husbands Physical and Mental health? Does he use any drugs or drink or has he got any mental stress? if so how long? You please address all thes history to find out what exactly the picture of the situation is? You can email me, Contact Lybrate and send me detailed history so that I can help you./
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