I am in my first year of engineering. I am staying in a hostel far from my parents. I do visit my home very frequently but even then I get homesick very soon. I am unable to concentrate on studies due. To homesickness.
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You are in a very dicey stage in your life and it has to do with the hormonal spurt in testosterone, the male sex hormone, which has a duration of two years. Due to this chemical alone there are three identified features that present itself over which you will have poor control: you will be sexually active, aggressive and rebellious, and you will have acne and pimple problems. Then if you have unresolved childhood issues, they will compound the situation and fuel uncontrolled behavior. Please remember that you may not be aware of all this. You are still dependent on your family which means that you are finding it hard to cut the apron strings from your family. There may be reasons for that and you should explore that with a counselor soon. This separation is something you will get used to and over time you will enjoy the independence. You should make new friends and and socialize a lot and you will get close to someone who will make up the absence of your family. Group study is one way to kill two birds at one time: deal with the loneliness and help you with your studies! If you get into all the activities of the college and hostel you will make a lot of friends and someone will become so close to you that you will then feel at home away from home!!!
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