Hello doctor, i'm from india, female, age 23, recently married, I never had any physical relationship before marriage, after marriage we tried to consummate with enough foreplay, but it ended up with lot of pain in my hymen, I initially felt that his size is a bit larger for that, so we stopped penetrative thing and tried using fingers at first, still I can't because it feels like it's going to hurt me a lot and i'm totally terrified. He also understood that I can't bear the pain, so we practiced to ejaculate just at the entrance of my vagina but it failed for me to conceive, I think my hymen is so tiny that even my fingers hurt there, so please guide me for breaking the hymen and help us to consummate, as it's been 4 months since we got married.