Hello All, Greetings, Here is my problem. Am over possessive on my friends. This is my character. Till my PG Studies i was in boys school and boys college. So there is no interaction with Girls. When i entered into a IT Company, The company is a small one. The Boys and Girls are taking very closely. Every girl has a close friend as boy and the girls are depending the boys. That makes me feels lonely. From that onwards i started to talking a girl. Finally she was very close to me and am also very close to her. Whatever it is she never forgot to call me. In that time her roomate loves a boy. Whenever her roommate going for outing with my friend only. I hate that and fight with her. She knows am loving her and she also loved me. In recent days my office boys 2 members talking to her. That makes more angry and argued with her daily. Finally she complaints me in the company and lost my job. Still am loving her deeply. I want her in my life. What can i do? How can i reduce my anger
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You blew up a very good relationship due to your possessiveness and jealousy. When you are in love with someone, you do not own them, or their time, or their relations, or their thoughts. These are all signs that you are very insecure. Now, no girl will want to be in such a relationship. You angered her to such an extent that she complained against you and you lost your job. That only means that you crossed boundaries of decency. I also think that you have lost her forever. Before you get into another relationship, I advise you to meet with a counselor and deal with your insecurities and then when you have sorted that out, you will know how to respect the other person?s freedom and independence. Otherwise, you will be prone to repeat your mistakes. Your insecurity is based on fear, and your anger is an escalation over that fear ?o You may not like this advice and may believe that that girl still loves you and that you can approach her again. That will be a mistaken notion that may only hurt you more and make you very disheartened. Let go. If you love somebody, you must let them go and if they are meant for you, they will return ? this is an old adage that still holds true today. Believe me.
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