My son &D in law , age group 45/48 . House wife /son mech engineer woking as GM in heahy Eqipment Co. Last 2 years there is difference in them on a simple ground that no respect for each others parents. Both now no talking terms , sever bitterness prevailing. How to resolve ? Please guide me.
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You have to take them into trust and talk first even if it is not comfortable. You can bring in your counterparts for discussion regarding the issue if you not discussed with them yet. Try relationship counselling. You both have to be proactive alongwith your counterparts resolving the issue. If you wish let your son and daughter in law speak to me separately.
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Since the boy is your son, kindly prevail on him to refrain from continuing this discord. Your daughter-in-law is the new person in your house, and must be treated with lots of love and respect. If your influence is not respected, then send them immediately to a marriage counselor and let them discuss this matter with the professional. In my opinion a marriage brings two families together and they must be equally respected. It is not a simple matter: respect is every man?s right. Why bring the family into disrepute or into their conflicts. In the Christian faith, we are very clear that when a man and woman marry, they become one flesh and must leave their father and mother and live by themselves. You must put your foot down, with your son in particular, that if they cannot respect their families, they can stay by themselves somewhere else. This might jolt them to a sensible reality. There is a risk but you cannot pussyfoot with this situation. The primary relationship for the couple is each other, then it is their children and then it is the parents. In any of these levels disrespect is never allowed or encouraged. Unnecessarily, they will need to stand for their own parents and make life miserable for themselves. In that case it is better for them to live by themselves, and exclusively for each other. Whatever happens, the couple?s marriage must be saved and restored to good levels of respect.
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